People tell you to get ready when you're
raising daughters
because they're going to argue over bathroom time, or they're going to
have
times when they just aren't rational, and when they seem to be reacting
to
things that you don't expect. All of that's happened in spades.
They're terrific, terrific young women, but they can test your patience.
I grew up in a traditional Catholic family in north Omaha. There were
nine kids. I'm the middle
child.
I think middle children are more inclined to bring people together and
try to
find compromise.
We all get along terrifically. We vacation every summer together. Four
of the
boys live in Omaha,
including me. I have a sister in Toronto,
two of
them in Oregon, a brother in Spokane, Washington,
and a sister in the Twin Cities.
All of them came back for the primary and for the general election and
knocked
on doors for the last week. It became a family affair.
My mom was a stay-at-home mom and we would have a full family meal
every night.
Now, I'm lucky if I can have one on Sundays with my kids with all the
activities.
I won by 14 votes after the provisional ballots came in. It flipped
because of
the provisional ballots.
We knocked on doors. We went around to every likely voter twice in the
primary
and two more times in the general election. So it was very much grass
roots,
very much on the doorstep, going to fish fries and church carnivals.
By the time the election comes, part of you is grateful it's over.
Maybe it is a little more special because it was close, 14 votes out of
11,000.
I'd feel pretty privileged to be down here even if it wasn't close.
I've been at Hauptman O'Brien since 1989. My little brother and I went
out
there and started practicing law together.
I truly enjoy the practice of law. To be a trial lawyer is a terrific
thing, to
have the training and ability to go into court and represent families.
It's a
privilege. I'm grateful to practice law with the guys I practice with.
I'm still in there on the weekends and on my days off.
I used to be a worrier. I don't know when I gave it up. When I was a
young
lawyer, I worried about everything from winning to looking stupid in a
trial.
But you get to the place where you go, "None of that does any good. It
doesn't change a single thing."
I gotta tell you I'm pretty content. I don't compare myself to other
people.
I feel strongly about working families. In my practice I represent
working
families primarily and down here that's the most important thing. The
middle
class is getting forgotten in government.
One of my favorite things to do is to go to comedy clubs. I go to the
Funny
Bone in Omaha
at least once a month, probably. And I'll hear a thousand jokes in the
course
of the night, and I'll get up the next morning and I won't remember a
single
one of them.
My favorite thing to do (on vacations) is to scuba dive. I love going
to places
where scuba diving is good, jumping in the water and going around the
reefs,
seeing the fish.
I have a picture of me with a shark.
I don't think there's a place on earth more beautiful than under water.
When
you get under water and you're in a reef, all these fish that people
try to
capture and put into tanks and have in their living room, they're all
down
there. It can be spectacular.
I have a small black dog, a schnoodle, half schnauzer, half poodle. And
it's
the greatest dog. Mia.
I don't dote over Mia the way Senator Chambers dotes over his poodle,
but my
kids do.
I drive back and forth every day. I'm a safe driver. There's so many
state
troopers between Omaha
and Lincoln in the morning that I've just resigned myself to the fact
that I'm
going to have to observe the speed limit. And it goes from 75 to 65 to
55, with
construction all over the place.
But I'm generally careful. I've represented so many people who have
been hurt
in traffic that I think it's made me a safer person.
I do not have a talent for decorating. If it was left to me I'd
probably put
brown carpet in every room, paint the walls off-white and throw up
pictures of
scenes from nature.
Look at (my office). This is what happens when I'm left to my own
devices. There's nothing on the walls
except the nails
Abbie Cornett left behind.
If I had a national political stage I would express concern about the
war in Iraq,
which I think, as we look back as a country, I think we were talked
into
something we never should have gotten into. I think our standing in the
world
has just diminished because people are now recognizing what the rest of
the
world saw a long time ago.
I also think we need to do something about health care. We have a lot
of people
who have no health insurance, and they're one illness away from having
nothing.
One illness away from having their house taken, from being on the
streets. And
I think that's something that needs to be addressed at the federal
level.
I have lost confidence in the ability of Congress to accomplish
anything. It'll
be interesting to see if the Democrats can accomplish a significant
change now
that they're the majority of both houses.
My biggest pet peeve is people that won't listen to reason. And that
may be
because most of the time I think I'm right, you know? When I've thought
something through, whether it's work or down here, when it just seems
to me
that reason would lead you to one conclusion and people aren't there
with me,
that's something I'm getting used to.